Definition of LOVE (part 1)

What is all about LOVE? Love is too wide, too deep ever to be truly measured and understood. Everyone has their own definition of LOVE. LOVE can symbolize happiness, sadness, blind OR etc.

I watched Stardust twice and i really like one part of the quotes in this movie. Here it goes:

"You know when I said I knew little about love? That wasn’t true. I know a lot about love. I’ve seen it, centuries and centuries of it, and it was the only thing that made watching your world bearable. All those wars... pain, lies, hate... It made me want to turn away and never look down again. But when I see the way that mankind loves... You could search to the furthest reaches of the universe and never find anything more beautiful. So yes, I know that love is unconditional. But I also know that it can be unpredictable, unexpected, uncontrollable, unbearable and strangely easy to mistake for loathing, and... What I’m trying to say, Tristan is...I think I love you. Is this love, Tristan? I never imagined I'd know it for myself. My heart... It feels like my chest can barely contain it. Like it’s trying to escape because it doesn't belong to me any more. It belongs to you. And if you wanted it, I’d wish for nothing in exchange...no gifts. No goods. No demonstrations of devotion. Nothing but knowing you loved me too. Just your heart, in exchange for mine."

I was touched beyond words. LOVE..

We all want to feel loved.We think about it, fantasize about it, hope for it, and trying very hard to achieve it and feel that life is incomplete without it. 'What is unconditional love /real love all about? Is such an unconditional, unbearable, unpredictable love exists in our life? I wonder...

To be continued Part 2.....

静思语

“ 若平常过的都是[互相找缺点]的生活，
那么生活中就会充满缺点，
彼此过得非常辛苦。”


我们凡夫只会互相找别人的缺点，但却没发现别人的优点。总是把别人的缺点放在心上，开始不喜欢那个人，甚至久而久之讨厌那个人。心里就会有怨恨，生活也因为怨恨而觉得很辛苦，很痛苦。世界也变得没那么美好了。其实，当我们讨厌一个人时，想一想对方的优点，可能那时你会发现到他并没有那么的讨人厌。世界上没有一个人是完美的，包括你，我，他。正如所说”一个缺口的杯子，如果换个角度去看他，他依然是圆的。“大家就用这道理去看待每个人吧！大家努力加油，创造一个美好未来！